Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Love Forever

She called me a princess. I use to change my clothing several times during the day when I went to visit on the farm, I would put the clothes for wash, she would just re fold them and return them to my suitcase. She was the first person to ask me to wash the dishes, she would laugh years later when describing to people how I used 2 long handled sponges to avoid touching the dirty water. When I was asked to vacuum one day, she came behind me and said " when you hear the dirt going up like that you need to stay in that place longer, till the noise is gone- that means it's clean". When she hugged me she meant it. I would tell people she was my favorite aunt because we had " almost the same name" even though she, like most in my family, called me Missy.

What I have learned over the past 2 years has been partly a result of her struggle and her strength. I have realized through her fight and my own that it is important to surround yourself with people who support you and not be afraid to let go of those who don't.

I will love her always and keep so many great memories close to my heart. She will always be my favorite.

Thank you to those who have sent their support and kind words to my family

B

15 comments:

PsychoJenic said...

I'm so sorry for your loss, B. It sounds like she was a very special woman who helped shape you into the person you are. People like her live forever in our hearts. Big hugs. Jxox

CarmenSinCity said...

Nice post and very sorry to hear about your loss.

Ruby said...

hi B I am so so sorry for your loss. You have such special memories and those will be with you forever. Sending lots of love and hugs
Ruby

Laurie said...

B - I'm so sorry. {{{HUG}}}

joan said...

I know who to thank for you need to keep a tidy home. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Teena in Toronto said...

She sounds great :)

Evelyne said...

My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.

Deb said...

That was beautiful. I, too, am sorry for your loss.

KT said...

so sorry for your loss. hugs.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry to read about your loss...all my deepest sympathy with you and your family at this time...

Jagjit x x x x

Kim said...

Hugs, B :)

You have some amazing memories to keep with you. Cherish them always.

--Kim

Jessica said...

Hey sweetie,
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my grandma last year and it broke my heart. It is so hard when someone who has been such a strong part of your life goes away. I am thinking of you and sending you lots of love.
Jess
P.S. I can't wait to see your vlog! WOO HOO!

Ally said...

Hugs friend. I'm sorry for your loss but glad that you've been blessed by a friendship with her.

Cathy said...

Dear B, you are such a lovely person and are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Cathy

Michael Manning said...

My thoughts and prayers are sincerely with you, B.

Michael